May 1, 2012

Pushing Your Mistakes Downstream

by Jennifer Kane

Pushing Your Mistakes Downstream

When people make a mistake, they generally take one of two courses of action: they fix it or they try to cover it up. In both cases, the goal is the same – to make the mistake go away…fast.

In social media though, it’s not quite that simple.

From typos in your tweets to jokes that fall flat on Facebook, mistakes come with the territory. And, that’s because there is no one right way to do social media. Tactics and messages vary from company to company, the playing field and the players are constantly in flux, and the whole ecosystem is moving at a breathtaking pace.

When you’re adapting to that much change and operating that quickly, you should EXPECT to make some mistakes.

More often than not, trying to fix or hide these mistakes will call more attention to them than if you’d just left them alone.

Oops. Sorry, world. I just tweeted something really, really inappropriate.

We’ve all had the impulse to send out a correction to clarify to our followers that we do indeed know the difference between “your” and “you’re” and that we were simply the victim of auto-correct in our social post.

I messed up! Squee!

But honestly, does it matter? Who HASN’T been the victim of auto-correct? And how likely is it that everyone in your network is reading your posts so thoroughly that they noticed the flub?

Same thing holds true for sending out an apology for a mistake you made, such as “I apologize for that thing I just tweeted” or “I apologize for my tone this morning.”

People are not, in fact, listening to every word you say in social media. In many cases (particularly on Facebook where the EdgeRank algorithm plays into who sees what and how much), most of your audience may have entirely missed the mistake you made.

But when you send out an apology, it acts as an advertisement promoting the mistake, inviting people to stop by your feed to revisit the error of your ways.

Hiding your mistakes can be a tricky business, too. Even if you go back and delete a post, chances are that someone saw it somewhere before you took it down. It’s pretty much impossible to entirely erase something’s existence entirely within the digital universe.

Please buckle your seat belt and keep your hands inside the ride at all times. 

So, what’s a person who’s human and makes mistakes to do?

Try this on for size…when you make a mistake, immediately go and make something that’s not a mistake, as soon as possible.

Think of your content like a flume ride at an amusement park, where bored college-aged workers in bright knickers load up a log of thrill-seekers at the start of the ride, release the log down the stream, and then start filling the next log in the queue.

If you forget to throw some content into the log that just got released, you’re not going to dive in and swim after it, trying to toss it in, right? And you’re not going to stand at the start of the ride and yell, “NO ONE LOOK AT THAT LOG I JUST SENT DOWN! IT TOTALLY WAS NOT LOADED PROPERLY,” right?

No, you learn your lesson, and load up the content correctly in the next log and move on.

Like the flume ride at a park, the digital content stream is continuously moving, so you need to be continuously moving and fluid as well.

  • If you say something stupid, say something else that’s smarter and push the stupid downstream.
  • If you make a typo, type your next post more slowly and push the typo downstream.
  • If you got your facts wrong, resend the info and amend it to correct the fact and push the error downstream.

Information stays fresh an astonishingly short time these days, and everyone reads their social from the top, down. This means that the most important thing that you can say in social media…is the thing that you just said. (Not what you said yesterday and certainly not what you said last week.)

So, be prodigious and fearless in your social engagement and trust in the power of the stream to not only provide a home for your new content, but to sweep away the detritus of your old stuff, like dirty rainwater through a storm drain.

 

 


Tags

community management, EdgeRank, Mistakes, Social media management


  • Wow. I’ve used your “Social Media is a river…..” often to explain the jump in philosophy, but now I’m gonna do the counter intuitive….because it just makes sense:
    “…when you make a mistake, immediately go and make something that’s not a mistake, as soon as possible.”

    • Yep. It’s still a river, but you don’t have to swim in it. Just drop your logs in and watch them float off into the sunset. 🙂

  • GREAT advice (and I love the ‘squeee!’ caption on the image.) No one would even logically try to stop the log mid-downhill flow! Just push another one out there and move on, the flawed one will move through the system soon enough. I had a boss once who told me on my first day of work, “I expect you to make mistakes. If you don’t, you’re not pushing hard enough.” That kind of mentality goes a long way – we should be sure to embolden our teams with inspirations like that … and keep pushing out the logs when someone slips up.

    • Sadly those kind of bosses seem to be few and far between. Hopefully, with digital moving at such a fast speed, more bosses will get with the program and lighten up on the “everything has to be perfect” thing. But I suspect that transition will be bumpy (it took me a looong time to get comfortable making a mistake and just letting it go.) Luckily for us all though, the interwebs could care less about our need for perfectionism. 🙂

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